So many of my clients admit they want love , but they continue to complain about their inability to find it. I tell them, “There are so many ways to find love. The most important way is building the lack of fear to give love.” It’s not only the romantic love that we look for, it’s receiving those special vibes from people, who can sense your giving nature, and what you portray to them.”
You might want to take this suggestion. When you walk by someone, who has a nice aura, “smile”! If you are in a meeting, “smile”! If you are sitting in the airport, “smile”! If the other people do not smile back, it doesn’t matter, because you’re practicing the energy of love. Unfortunately, I see so many people walk down the street, in the halls of an office building, or sitting in a restaurant, and they look so unhappy. I feel sad for them, because they do not understand how to give and receive love, which is the truthful gift of love. When an aura of unhappiness surrounds you, people tend to feel it, and subconsciously tend to move away from you. We cannot reveal our negativity or misery, because we will exude our pain, not love!
When we are positive we bring light to those who are around us. Spirit and energy prevails over sadness and “poor me.” I must admit I enjoy people talking to me about my spirit and energy, as it helps me to feel young and stay young. Staying young is not only taking away the wrinkles, or getting a face lift, it’s about sincerely loving ourselves, for our blessings, inner talent, and ability.
We cannot not blame our parents, or the fact that we had very little love, as we grew up. We have a choice as to whether we want to live our lives with joy, and succeed at what we love. I have a friend, who calls me every morning and complains, “Life is so hard.” I care for her, but I say, “Please stop complaining about everything. I take your unhappiness on, and it can spoil my day.” Unfortunately, I had to let her go, since complaining was the drama that she always lived by. It was very unhealthy.
My clients laugh when I advise them to get up in the morning, go into the bathroom, look into the mirror and say, “I love you.” Say, trust me, it’s not a game, it’s about the practice of self-love.
I truly believe that one’s productivity and success thrives with self-love. It thrives when we believe in ourselves. It diminishes when we get in our own way with self-criticism, nervous anxiety, and worry. If we live with chaos, our bodies live with pain, and finally illness. Do not destroy your wonderful traits with negative drama. If we are blessed with beauty inside and out, we cannot discount it.
I have been writing about violence, because I believe that it’s all about ignorance of self, and a lack of self-discovery. It’s all about anger and false power. Killing does not give us power, it enhances our insecurity and gives us subconscious self-hate. Anger is so far away from love. It is the cause of hate, destruction, and lack of education. Is it dreadful to live with hate on a daily basis? I say YES, and could not live with hate for five minutes.
Since truth is my brand, self love is next door. Since living your truth is your real power, the love you want will find you. Reach out, and the peace you pray for will not only be a dream, but a fact of life!