If the truth strengthens your self-esteem, why are you afraid of it? If the truth makes you proud of yourself, why do you walk away from it? If the truth enhances your courage, why do you choose to lie?
My brand is truth, and for some reason I have lived with truth all of my life. Why? It makes me feel good and I can handle difficult situations in a healthy way. My children were taught not to lie. Therefore, they do not lie. I guess living with a mom, who knows you are lying scares them to death. I remember my son, who is now an adult, saying to his sister, “Mom gives you that look and we better tell her the truth. Did I scare them? Probably, but it worked well for them.
If you lie to your mate, as a client of mine defends herself, “I just omit!” I respond with omitting is a lie. As I coach my clients I try to show them that most of their suffering comes from lying, or harboring their truth. What comes from harboring your truth? ANGER, DEEP ANGER!
When we tell the truth we cleanse our bodies. When we lie our bodies suffer. Most times our health is affected when we harbor our feelings, and build our anger. Also, it’s possible to build chaos and then we can become nervous wrecks. My motto is no nervous wrecks in my clientele. No constant worry that cannot be resolved. No anxiety on a daily basis. After you coach with me your life will be changed. At least that’s what my clients tell me.
Do yourself a favor and live your truth with honor and self-respect. Do yourself a favor and learn to trust yourself because faith in yourself and in your accomplishments is crucial.
Your marriage and relationships will bring you peace and self-confidence when you tell the truth.
I know that my goal is to bring truth to all who listen, but I just can’t help it. My videos on U Tube are all about truth and with truth, joy will prevail. With living your truth, you will not want to please everyone and realize that no one can please another person enough. Live your truth and you will learn how to receive and it will feel good.